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Moving is one of the top three stressful experiences for humans and when the move
includes our pets, the stress can affect everyone in the family.  However, humans
do get to offset some anxiety through exercising some choice and control over
what the move might bring while our animals simply get none.  Planning and
executing a move for us, includes all sorts of think ahead moments from
anticipating potential issues and figuring how best to address them to what to
look to forward to in your new home.  Each new experience from packing boxes
to moving trucks to rearranging furniture are events that your cat or dog or
both get to show up to without knowing ahead of time they are coming.  As many
plans and expectations as you have for your new place you pet simply cannot share
them. This is all foreign, uncharted territory outside of the realm of the routine
world your cat or dog has come to know and depend on.  Knowing this, how can
you make that move less stressful for the companion animals in your household?

Before you go:  Pack for your pet too-  Toys, beds, scratch posts, litter pans and
other pet paraphernalia need to be as recognizable as possible to provide familiar
smells and known object recognition (think “their stuff’).  You know how you hear
that packing a suitcase for humans is a good idea for that initial settling in period
of your new place?  Your pet needs one also.

Moving day:  is sure to be chaotic with everyone coming, going and doors left ajar,
open, slammed, not to mention all sorts of strangers to your pets in the form of
moving men, etc.  Keep it safe the day of for cats by making sure to confine pets to
the last room anyone will enter with a securely closed door.  Even better, place cats
the morning of, after food and litter breaks, into cat carriers with one of your worn
t shirts to provide scent and comfort.  Position the carriers against a wall and not
in the center of the room for additional security.  Partially cover the tops of the
carrier with a pillow case to block some visual exposure making sure there is
sufficient airflow.  A spritz of
Rescue Remedy on muzzle and/or paws is helpful for
both cats and dogs.

Larger dogs can be kept with you on lead and smaller dogs can also be confined to
carriers.  Make sure and bring your animals with you and never on the moving
van and check frequently on them to monitor stress.

Your new place:  Allow for less is more with cats initially. While you may think
having an option to explore the new digs is the way to go for felines all that new
space is overwhelming and scary.  Keep cats in one room for the first week or two.  
Your bedroom is the ideal space especially since you will be spending all those
nocturnal hours together and is full of your scent, all of which is incredibly
reassuring in a new space.  Install familiar cat beds, toys, litter box, and a
feeding station.  Cat houses or beds on a raised surface or cat towers are ideal for
hiding and getting familiar with things in cat time.  Allow for cats going incognito
when they arrive and do remember to greet kitties by name on each entrance and
exit to and from the room for reassurance in this new scary space.

Explore your new place with your dog- Make sure and take the time to allow the
dog to sniff around, on a leash, the block, yard, perimeter of your home.  This walk
around should also include the indoor areas of your home.  Remember to engage
with your dog at all times in the process-talk to your dog in a happy and calm voice,
explain what is going on and where you are now even if it is to describe each new
room.  While your dog may not understand every word you are saying, your tone
of voice and accompanying body language will reassure your dog that he or she is
in a possibly welcome and safe place.  Keeping the dog on leash with you keeps the
dog physically connected to you, helping to foster both emotional and physical
security for the both of you.

Keep the routine:  Maintain consistency where you can.  This means feeding and
litter box cleaning at the same times as before, the same for walk schedules and
other outings. Your pets anticipate events like these and keeping on schedule will
give much needed structure to getting everyone familiar with a new environment.

Share what’s good about your move:  You know the things you can look forward
to about your new neighborhood or home, your pet does not.  Consider the pet
perspective in cat tower placement –in the corner near that sunny window or other
pet perfect spots for beds and cat houses.  Map out the route to a new dog park or a
great walk with lots of sniff potential.  Remember to start small, all that great
newness can overwhelming so keep that familiar cat environment confined to one
room for the first ten days or two weeks before spreading out cat furniture to the
whole house and keep walks and dog parks visits shorter for starters as well.

Allow for excitement/reaction:  Your pets will no doubt respond to changes
with a level of excitement or inhibition.  Be the social support that your pet needs
by providing routine and calm energy.  Talking to your pets and playing classical
music at home on the first few days is soothing.  After the first several days
introduce interactive play time with cats and a five minute morning and evening
training session for dogs (sit, down, stand or any variation of three commands five
times in a row) to provide engagement, comfort and structure with all that

Allow for mistakes:  Even with the best house training your home is new to your
dog or cat, there are no familiar smells in the walls, or safe and comfortable corners
to be in, yet.  Should there be a break in house-training, know that this loss of
control may be stress related.  Avoid any reprimands as they will only serve to
create more stress.

Moving is a stressful and exciting experience.  Here’s to making the best of it from
the canine, feline and human point of view.

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"Pack for your pet too-  Toys,
beds, scratch posts, litter pans
and other pet paraphernalia
need to be as recognizable
as possible to provide familiar
smells and known object
recognition (think “their stuff’).  
You know how you hear that
packing a suitcase for
humans is a good idea for that
initial settling in period of
your new place?  Your pet
needs one also."
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